"I wanted to stay with Grandma" (this after a scolding about behaving and listening to mom due to an altercation about getting into the car seat)  

Me: "you want to live with Grandma?"  

Nanea (pauses, contemplating this question): "No, I want to live with Tutu."

Me: "You want to live with Tutu?  Won't you miss me?"

Nanea: "No, I won't miss you.  Can you pack my things for me?"

Me: "What do you think you'll need?"

Nanea: "Well, maybe some toys."

Me: "No, tutu and Grandpa have lots of toys.  How about your clothes?"

Nanea: "Ok, and maybe some snacks."

Me: "Do you not want to live with me because I yell at you?"

Nanea: "Yes."

Me: "Well, why do you think I yell at you?"

Nanea: "Because I don't listen."

Me: "Well, who's fault is that?"

Nanea: "Mine, I guess.  Can I go live with Tutu?"

So, my 3 year old (who I am beginning to think is actually a teenager in a 3-year old's body), is all set to move in with tutu and grandpa.  She called them and asked, and has been a constant topic of conversation since yesterday.  Today she asked if Makena and I could take her on the airplane to drop her off.  It's been a hard week and a half with no daddy and little attention.  3 weeks to go...though tutu comes next week, so she will be getting more attention then.  She may just stow-away in her luggage.